'I'm 96 and I have 15 million followers': older women are taking over TikTok

Older content creators — from 96-year-old Grandma Droniak to 77-year-old Barbara Costello — are amassing multi-million audiences and earning from brand collaborations, covering care costs and helping their followers. Experts note the loyalty of their communities and the value of a 'virtual grandma' for younger audiences.

The key facts

  • 96-year-old Lillian Droniak earns $12,000 a month from social media, covering her assisted living bill
  • 82-year-old Viv Truran from Cardiff shares outfits with more than 800,000 followers
  • We Are Social experts: older creators have loyal communities with high purchasing power

Viral fame in her 90s

96-year-old Lillian Droniak from Connecticut, known as Grandma Droniak, went viral in June after claiming her retirement home had threatened to evict her for throwing parties. The assisted living facility later confirmed the threat but reached an agreement: parties are allowed, but without alcohol. With 15 million followers, she has turned her popularity into a business: social media income covers her assisted living bill of $12,000 (about £9,000) a month. Since 2020, her grandson has helped her run the accounts — initially out of boredom. Sponsored content (partnerships with grocery and beauty brands) is monetised, and the money also goes into an education fund for her great-grandchildren. According to her, her fame means nothing at the facility: 'They don't understand, because they're not on TikTok.'

'Old age isn't so scary'

Droniak believes her appeal lies in showing young people that life doesn't end with age. 'They think old people just sit and stare at the wall, but I show that getting old isn't so bad. We embrace it, we can still have fun, and I still go to parties.'

Fashion from Cardiff

82-year-old Viv Truran from Cardiff started posting on Instagram after her husband's death — a neighbour suggested filming her colourful outfits. Now she films two videos a day from a bedroom converted into a studio, showcasing clothes, 22 pairs of glasses and two boxes of scarves. She keeps a notebook tallying followers and views — already her fifth. Strangers, mostly women in their 20s and 30s, confess to her that they 'fear old age', and she shows them that 'it's not so bad'. Truran does a couple of sponsored posts a month, prioritising local brands and charities such as Age UK, which paid her several thousand for a campaign. 'I'm very picky: I have to truly love the brand,' she says, noting that she has turned down major deals.

'Virtual grandma' and brands

Naomi Baker of influencer marketing agency We Are Social explains brands' interest in older creators: they have 'deeply established, highly loyal' communities with greater purchasing power, which 'carries a huge premium'. According to her, such content 'offers comfort in an uncertain world' and works as a 'virtual grandma' for followers.

Nonna Gracie and Brunch with Babs

85-year-old Grace Geramita, known as Nonna Gracie and dubbed 'the internet's Italian grandma', attracts millions of followers with recipe videos she has been making for decades. Having moved from Italy to the US at 18, she worked several jobs at once to raise her two daughters; now she earns more than ever. Her grandson Matthew suggested filming six years ago — Geramita initially didn't want to, as she didn't understand social media and 'doesn't speak English very well', but the videos took off. 'I always cry when people send me messages from all over the world,' she says, adding that she wants to pass on 'the tradition of gathering family around the table'. 77-year-old Barbara Costello, a former teacher, runs the Brunch with Babs accounts about cooking, cleaning and homemaking. Followers call her 'the mum I never had'; one student told her in a restaurant that her cookbook helped her get through her first year of living independently. Costello calls meeting former students at book signings the best moment: 'It's a full circle. I really can't believe this is my life.'

Ninety-six-year-old Grandma Droniak, holding a martini glass and wearing a pink sparkly top and a white fur shawl. She is standing in front of a dressing table with lights around the mirror.Image source, Grandma Droniak
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Grandma Droniak pays for her care home fees with the money she makes from brand deals on social media

Viv Truran with grey hair, lying on a chair outside wearing a pink jumper and pink trousersImage source, Viv Truran
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Viv Truran shares her colourful outfits with her more than 800,000 followers

Nonna Gracie wearing a black apron with white pinstripes over a white top, and holding a glass of red wineImage source, Nonna Gracie
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Nonna Gracie has been dubbed 'the internet's Italian grandma'

Barbara Costello standing in a kitchen, wearing an apron and holding a muffin trayImage source, Barbara Costello
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Barbara Costello says many people see her as the mother or grandmother they never had

Vivien Wong wearing a white lace camisole and bright pink wool cardigan sitting on a grey sofa in a plush homeThree young people viewed from above are sitting at a table at the end of a meal. They have their phones out and the woman on the left is frowning as she looks at hers. There are empty and half empty plates and glasses.A composite image of a man and a woman with the graphic of a receipt in the background.

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