The key facts

  • Ronaldo announced his departure from the national team on November 5; over 23 years he played 234 matches and scored 146 goals
  • Ronaldo announced his departure from the national team on November 5; over 23 years he made 234 appearances and scored 146 goals
  • The conflict with Jesus began with a broken agreement about the training camp plan and his failure to come on as a substitute against Norway
  • Psychologist Abravitova calls the departure an attempt to preserve control and agency; the national team, she says, lost two million followers
  • Psychologist Abravitova calls the departure an attempt to preserve control and agency; the national team, according to her, lost two million subscribers

A departure that was first announced, then denied, and then confirmed again

Cristiano Ronaldo has officially ended his career with the Portugal national team: the 41-year-old footballer announced his decision on November 5. Over 23 years with the national team, he played 234 matches and scored 146 goals, setting world records. This was reported by Life.ru.

What led up to the decision

Psychologist Marianna Abravitova, commenting on the footballer's departure, described the timeline of the conflict with head coach Jorge Jesus. According to her account, based on Ronaldo's own words, the conflict began not with the match against Norway, but with a broken agreement: the plan for the training camp stipulated that Ronaldo would skip away matches to recover, but before the game the coach asked him to come on for at least half an hour. Ronaldo agreed at the expense of his own preparation plan, warmed up and waited to enter the pitch, but was never brought on. The second blow, according to the psychologist, was the coach's unfulfilled promise to publicly explain the situation, even though the text of the apology, according to Ronaldo, had already been agreed upon.

A psychological interpretation: the inability to step into the shadows

Abravitova assessed what happened not as a quarrel over a substitution, but as a clash of 'two incompatible worldviews.' In her view, the decision to end his national team career — which Ronaldo first announced, then denied, but ultimately confirmed — was a 'final attempt to preserve control and dignity' in a situation where, for the first time, he could not dictate the terms. She linked the footballer's behavior to perfectionism and a 'narcissistic organization of personality': the shift from unconditional leader to 'joker' is perceived as a loss of status, while a demonstrative departure is a way to regain agency and remain in the spotlight. The unauthorized departure and subsequent suspension, she noted, confirm Ronaldo's fear: he is no longer irreplaceable.

Consequences for the national team

According to Abravitova, the Portugal national team lost two million followers after Ronaldo's departure, but 'institutionally survived and did not collapse.' She contrasted this departure with Lionel Messi's farewell, in which he accepted the role of a departing yet still embraced leader — against that backdrop, the psychologist believes, Ronaldo's departure looks like a 'psychological inability to let go.' It is important to note that this is the assessment of an invited expert, not confirmed facts: the footballer's own motives are presented in the publication only through the psychologist's retelling of his words.

This scandal between Ronaldo and the coach is not just a quarrel over a substitution. It is a clash of two, in my view, incompatible worldviews. Ronaldo's resentment is completely understandable to me, but its root goes deeper than those 30 minutes of warm-up that never happened. The decision to end his national team career, which he first announced, then denied, but ultimately confirmed, is a final attempt to preserve control and dignity in a situation where, for the first time, he faced the impossibility of dictating the terms.This scandal between Ronaldo and the coach is not just a quarrel over a substitution. It is a clash of two, in my view, incompatible worldviews. Ronaldo's resentment is completely understandable to me, but its root goes deeper than those 30 minutes of warm-up that never happened. The decision to end his national team career, which he first announced, then denied, but ultimately confirmed, is a final attempt to preserve control and dignity in a situation where, for the first time, he faced the impossibility of dictating the terms.For a person who spent 23 years building a career and devoted his life to flawlessly keeping promises to himself, to sport, to fans and to the team, this was perceived not as a tactical decision by the coach, but as personal disrespect. The second blow was the coach's unfulfilled promise to publicly explain the situation, even though the text of the apology, according to Ronaldo, had already been agreed upon.For a person who spent 23 years building a career and devoted his life to flawlessly keeping promises to himself, to sport, to fans and to the team, this was perceived not as a tactical decision by the coach, but as personal disrespect. The second blow was the coach's unfulfilled promise to publicly explain the situation, even though the text of the apology, according to Ronaldo, had already been agreed upon.Instead, we see a demonstrative departure as a way to reclaim agency: 'You wouldn't put me on the pitch? Then I'm taking my legend out of this locker room and leaving.' Such people always carry a fear of being forgotten. The chase for the thousandth goal and the reluctance to retire are attempts to keep the world from forgetting about him. Leaving the national team amid a scandal is also a way to stay in the news — perhaps even unconsciously — even though it is destructive to his legacy. It is a capitulation to reality. His unauthorized departure and the subsequent suspension confirm his fear: he is no longer irreplaceable.Instead, we see a demonstrative departure as a way to reclaim agency: 'You wouldn't put me on the pitch? Then I'm taking my legend out of this locker room and leaving.' Such people always carry a fear of being forgotten. The chase for the thousandth goal and the reluctance to retire are attempts to keep the world from forgetting about him. Leaving the national team amid a scandal is also a way to stay in the news — perhaps even unconsciously — even though it is destructive to his legacy. It is a capitulation to reality. His unauthorized departure and the subsequent suspension confirm his fear: he is no longer irreplaceable.He could have become a wise mentor to young footballers, but his personality is built in such a way that secondary roles are unbearable for him. This is where the tragedy of successful narcissists lies: a man who spent his whole life above the team ended up, in the end, against it. His choice is to leave so he won't have to watch how this team manages without him.He could have become a wise mentor to young footballers, but his personality is built in such a way that secondary roles are unbearable for him. This is where the tragedy of successful narcissists lies: a man who spent his whole life above the team ended up, in the end, against it. His choice is to leave so he won't have to watch how this team manages without him.Ronaldo has ended his career with the Portugal national team: what happened and whether he will keep playing